Sage Kitchen Wisdom that might steer you wrong!

Following ‘expert advice’ does not always produce the best cooking!

But mother told me…

Are there any cooking ‘rules’ you constantly break? As much as I learned from my mother, I pretty much set aside anything she said about cooking spaghetti; I never add oil to the pasta water like she did because it doesn’t really stop anything from sticking together, and I don’t break my spaghetti in two either. Or rinse it off.

Here’s some advice you might have heard along the way, do they really work?

Never salt your beans until they are cooked or they will remain hard, or get mushy.

Peel your ginger with a teaspoon

Poach your fish covered in court-bouillon 

Never wash your mushrooms or they will get soggy

Never cut meat or fish on a wooden cutting board

The ‘easy’ way to pit an avocado

Never mix Cheese and Seafood

Poach your eggs by making a whirlpool in your pot of water.

Right?

* Exactly how fresh is that supermarket egg? The carton will have a code on it that is the numerical day of the year. Thus, if it was packed on February 26, the code will read 057. If it is May, you might pause, and that’s not an outrageous date to expect from a commercial egg. I was checking supermarket eggs recently deep in February and some had a sell-by date of May. I doubt they would actually be there still in May, but it does make one think.

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67 Comments Add yours

  1. Sage advice all right. Love your alternates.

  2. terrie gura says:

    Yes! Go, Dorothy!!! Rules are made by people who couldn’t find a workaround. I love all of these tips, and you already know how much the “salt the beans” and “use baking soda” has saved me. May I add one of my own to the list?

    I never, ever peel eggplant for a recipe. Apparently, conventional wisdom has convinced cooks that the skin is bitter and must be removed. But peeling has proven to be a time-consuming and completely unnecessary task. I love how it looks with the skin in eggplant parm or ratatouille, and it cooks up tender every time and I never detect a bitter taste.

    1. That’s a good one Terrie, and you are so right! A few years ago I went on my “don’t peel unless it is absolutely necessary” kick, and I made some grilled eggplants for a gathering and didn’t peel them. Everyone who had them loved them! I couldn’t sample because I’m allergic!

  3. bernadette Laganella says:

    Wonderful and practical advice. Thanks

  4. I enjoyed reading this post, and agree with almost all points, especially regarding the “never mix cheese and seafood” part, which is really silly!
    However, I do use the whirlpool method when poaching eggs, and it always worked for me. I find it gives the eggs a “tighter” texture. But it really isn’t that crucial.
    I’m all for less rules, and more spontaneity in cooking! 🙂

    1. I do mix cheese and seafood because I find it is delicious!!!
      I’m so glad at least one person has perfected the whirlpool!!!

      1. I’m not even sure who came up with this so-called rule, regarding seafood and cheese, and why??? 🙂

        1. I know! With some of the rules, you can sort of see what people were thinking. But, anyone who would not try Parmesan crusted roasted shrimp because of a rule, well, doesn’t deserve to eat any of it!

  5. gabychops says:

    All very interesting advice, Dorothy! Thank you!

    Joanna

  6. Great information and I really like the grated ginger point 🙂

    1. Thank you June! It does make life easier.

  7. Sheree says:

    I’m with you Dorothy!

    1. Thanks! Sometimes it takes a while to trust our own instincts.

      1. Sheree says:

        True

  8. Suzassippi says:

    I never attempted to poach an egg after my first whirlpool disaster. I cook beans the way my mother did, and they are always good. I do not put oil in my pasta water, and it has never ever clumped on me. I always wash my mushrooms, but only just before using. Apparently, Mississippi has very dirty mushrooms! And that is all I have to say about that…BUT, I loved your stories, and IF I ever decide to poach an egg (or a skillet full of eggs), I will definitely know how to do so! I so enjoy reading your blog, regardless of whether or not I intend to cook!

    1. Ah, thanks so much! Eventually we all figure out what we need to know!

  9. Chef Mimi says:

    Fun post! I have a shrimp and feta dish that is outstanding. So much for that rule.

  10. brwbmm says:

    I don’t like to put cheese on fish or seafood, simply because the flavor and texture of cheese can overwhelm the fish rather than enhance it. Instead, I would recommend a little butter or some toasted bread crumbs.

  11. Wow – you did a public service here for all your readers plus your Mom is smiling. Happy Sunday!

  12. Julia says:

    I didn’t know the egg cartons had the day they were packed. Thanks for sharing.

  13. Eha says:

    What a fun way to rethink some of our automatic kitchen habits! Thank you with a smile!

  14. Thank you for sharing and unpacking some of these old kitchen wisdoms. I have both wooden and plastic cutting boards but have always preferred my wooden ones. Now more and more research is verifying not only that wooden boards harbour less bacteria, plastic boards frequently shed plastic fibres into the foods that we are preparing. Yikes! Another changeover for my kitchen accessories!

  15. “Can you tell it’s Cabin Fever Season and I might be a bit cranky?” Bahaha! I loved this post from beginning to end. My Mom always yelled, I mean screamed at me if I lifted the lid on a pot of rice that was cooking. She was seriously demented about this issue. TO THIS DAY I HAVE AN INTENSE FEAR OF CHECKING ON THE RICE. She insisted it would not cook any longer if I let the steam out. Please tell me this is not true! Hugs, C

    1. My mom said the same thing! But I peek because I need to know how close it is, and so far I haven’t ruined it!
      But, I still don’t dare to lift the lid on the dumplings!

  16. Kevin says:

    I’ve tried peeling root ginger with a teaspoon and find it frustrating. Sooner or later I resort to a sharp veg knife and trim off the outer, much more effectively. I hadn’t thought of leaving it unpeeled, though, and will give that a try.

    1. It’s so much easier, and the microplane, or rasp from the hardware store, makes quick work of it.

  17. You are wise beyond the kitchen! I’m particularly glad you greenlighted salting the beans while they soak. I was just writing about a batch of crockpot baked beans I made and will definitely use this advice next go-round.

    1. Thanks Amie! My mom was a wise woman indeed, except when it came to spaghetti!

  18. Forestwood says:

    I was told that washing mushrooms means they will take longer to cook. And I never liked plastic cutting boards at all. Wooden all the way. But your are correct about using common sense, especially when it comes to poached eggs.
    I am going to try your salmon cooking method asap.

    1. Thanks Amanda! I think the wisdom said the mushrooms would absorb so much water they would take longer to cook and never brown. I think you’d have to let them soak an awful long time for this to happen. But you do have to dry them off.
      I think you’ll enjoy the salmon ‘poached’ in just a bit of liquid.
      Trust those instincts!

  19. lisinmayenne says:

    I loved this, Dorothy, and smiled and nodded all the way through! Mind you, I am a bit of a rebel and think so many rules are there to be broken, especially when you consider how misguided some of them are. Happily, the kitchen police don’t tend to come knocking! 😊

    1. I’m with you! Sometimes it takes a while to trust your own instincts!

  20. Gail says:

    You’re a wealth of knowledge when it comes to kitchen ideas, tried-and-true techniques, and food preparation. Well Done, Dorothy. 🤔🍃🌞

    1. Thanks Gail, any wisdom I have has come from lots of little mistakes! The best teachers!

      1. Gail says:

        Truth! 🌟✨💫

  21. I have to admit I was unfamiliar with many of those, particularly the one about not washing mushrooms. The ones I buy are usually loaded with dirt, and I—wait for it—actually soak them and then set them on a towel to dry. Never had any problems with them.

    1. I know! I have no idea who decided that you can’t wash or soak your mushrooms. I am not particularly fond of eating mushroom fertilizer mud.

  22. Great tips Dorothy, thanks!

    1. Thanks! A little experience, a lot of luck!

  23. NativeNM says:

    Oh what great advice! My mom must have been from the same generation as yours, she had the same thoughts on many of the things you listed. I’ve found though my own experiences, my cooking has changed in many ways from the way she used to cook.

    1. We do evolve with the times!

  24. Fabulous post, D! I must disagree with you on one thing and that is adding a bit of oil to my lasagna water. I find it does nothing when added to other pasta but it does help to keep the big sheets of lasagna from sticking together. If you’ve ever had stuck-together lasagna sheets, you know what a messy, frustrating mess that can be!

    1. That’s a good point my friend! Those sheets can be tricky!

  25. sherry says:

    i agree with the bit about eating cheese and seafood together. I think they can be great companions!

    1. Agreed! They work marvelously together.

  26. Agree with everything you wrote, Dorothy. I actually have blog posts about most of these topics. Some additions:
    For the beans, add the salt to the soaking water.
    For the poached eggs: break them in a coffee cup first, makes it easier to slide them into the hot water. Or even put heat-resistant cling film in the cup, twist it closed, and poach the egg wrapped in plastic.
    All the things your mother did with spaghetti are considered capital offenses in Italy 😉

    1. Thanks Stefan! The coffee cup idea sounds brilliant. You still get the egg close to the water but your fingers are out of harm’s way!
      Yes, it’s a good thing mom never showed her face in Italy!

  27. Americaoncoffee says:

    I super love this!❤️ Dorothy’s tips!🫶👍👍

  28. Carolyn Page says:

    I do believe, Dorothy, it was you who first suggested grating ginger ‘skin and all’. I wouldn’t do it any other way these days. As for the avo; guilty as charged. I use a wallop of a knife to snare and lift the pit, then hit the handle of the knife against the bin. Off falls the pit into the bin. But, don’t tell anyone. I don’t want to be accused of maiming!

    1. Just a fair warning my friend! It always gives me the Willie’s when I see someone do this!

      1. Carolyn Page says:

        Thank You for caring. I am extremely careful – promise!

  29. Robbie Cheadle says:

    Hi Dorothy, some excellent advice here. My husband and I were both taught to add oil to the cooking water for pasta. I also add salt when I soak beans and when I cook them.

  30. Kitchen wisdom is part of the charm and the traditions we hold close to our hearts. And with our modern cooking techniques I am sure can debunk most. Still, these nuggets of wisdom passed down through the generations hold a little piece of my heart.

    Velva

    1. They do hold our hearts! I’ll still never peek when the dumplings are cooking!

  31. This was a fun post, Dorothy. We do have so many kitchen “rules.” Thank you for sharing your expertise. I do love your blog.

    1. Thanks Mary! In the end, most of us figure out what really works, don’t we? Time and experience, that makes confidence!

  32. Enjoyed your post immensely – oh those kitchen rules!!!

    1. I know! Luckily, most of us figure these things out.

  33. What a fun and informative post Dorothy, I really enjoyed reading it!

  34. nancyc says:

    Thanks for the tips! I especially like the one about not peeling the ginger! 🙂

    1. I messed with them for a long time, but there really is no reason to perk them. Waste not, especially time!

  35. What a lovely and interesting post Dorothy! I usually don’t follow any rules, just my “common sense” 😅 but sometimes is good to have some advice 😉

    1. Our own instincts and common sense are always the best Ribana!

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